Irene Mekel, diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease, grapples with the complexities of choosing medically assisted death under Dutch law, amid concerns of losing her cognitive capacity.
Navigating End-of-Life Decisions: The Case of Irene Mekel and Alzheimer's Disease

Navigating End-of-Life Decisions: The Case of Irene Mekel and Alzheimer's Disease
A poignant exploration of the challenges faced by Dementia patients in the Netherlands as they navigate laws on medically assisted death.
In the quaint village of Castricum, Netherlands, Irene Mekel faces a deeply personal and complex decision. At 82, with a year-old diagnosis of Alzheimer's disease, Mekel finds herself racing against time, not out of urgency to leave life behind, but to ensure she has the autonomy to choose her end. The legal framework for medically assisted death is available in the Netherlands, yet the emotional and ethical entanglements surrounding such choices create a tough landscape for patients and their families.
Mekel adores her life—her charming home filled with flowers, the nearby street markets, and her loving children. Yet, as she observes the decline of her cognitive abilities, the inevitability of her condition looms large. Having worked as a nurse and cared for her sister who suffered from vascular dementia, she understands the progression of Alzheimer's all too well.
To prepare for her future, Mekel participated in a workshop organized by the Dutch Association for Voluntary End of Life prior to her diagnosis. Here, she drafted an advance directive detailing her wishes for euthanasia; she plans to invoke this right once she can no longer recognize her family, engage in conversations, or stay in her home—three circumstances she considers crucial to her dignity.
However, even with her directives in place, complications arise. Though her family doctor supports the idea of euthanasia, she is unable to comply due to regulations stating that consent must be given by a patient who retains the capacity to decide. This leaves Mekel in a state of distress as she contemplates her impending incapacity and the very real fear of being unable to act on her wishes.
In the face of this bureaucratic paradox, Mekel’s story sheds light on broader societal issues surrounding end-of-life choices, autonomy, and the dignity of patients grappling with cognitive decline. As she awaits the day she must choose, her journey raises vital questions about the ethics of assisted death, especially for those whose mental faculties are diminishing—a subject of ongoing debate in the Netherlands and beyond.
Mekel adores her life—her charming home filled with flowers, the nearby street markets, and her loving children. Yet, as she observes the decline of her cognitive abilities, the inevitability of her condition looms large. Having worked as a nurse and cared for her sister who suffered from vascular dementia, she understands the progression of Alzheimer's all too well.
To prepare for her future, Mekel participated in a workshop organized by the Dutch Association for Voluntary End of Life prior to her diagnosis. Here, she drafted an advance directive detailing her wishes for euthanasia; she plans to invoke this right once she can no longer recognize her family, engage in conversations, or stay in her home—three circumstances she considers crucial to her dignity.
However, even with her directives in place, complications arise. Though her family doctor supports the idea of euthanasia, she is unable to comply due to regulations stating that consent must be given by a patient who retains the capacity to decide. This leaves Mekel in a state of distress as she contemplates her impending incapacity and the very real fear of being unable to act on her wishes.
In the face of this bureaucratic paradox, Mekel’s story sheds light on broader societal issues surrounding end-of-life choices, autonomy, and the dignity of patients grappling with cognitive decline. As she awaits the day she must choose, her journey raises vital questions about the ethics of assisted death, especially for those whose mental faculties are diminishing—a subject of ongoing debate in the Netherlands and beyond.